ADJUST ACCEPT ADOPT
ADJUST ACCEPT ADOPT
ADJUST not, nor
ACCEPT, but
ADOPT
ADJUST ACCEPT ADOPT
GOOD BETTER BEST
We normally find ourselves under situations where there is a change, which demands an attitude from us. So, under such circumstances what stand do we take is so very important. There are always options left as to what further actions we are to take.
A very thin line exists between these words though they sound rather the same but they are tricky. I am therefore giving the nearest synonyms to them below.
We may ADJUST to the conditions, but we will not fully agree or have something in the background of our mind that things should or would have been different.
We shall ACCEPT but still go ahead with the situation not agreeing on certain aspects.
We will ADOPT with full consent of our mind and devote to the circumstances like how we would adopt a child as our own.
By Adopting we would be more Satisfied and Happy.
Synonyms of ADJUST
Accommodate, Accustom, Regulate, Modify
Synonyms of ACCEPT
Obtain, Acquire, Welcome
Synonyms of ADOPT
Adapt, Appropriate, Endorse, Embrace
November 28, 2017 at 7:09 am
Nice
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November 28, 2017 at 7:19 am
Reblogged this on Mugglestones and Mayhem and commented:
Thanks Shiva. Good stuff! Reblogged!
Mo
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November 28, 2017 at 7:35 am
Amen. Some things in life you have no control over such as death. Even sickness, disease and misfortune can overtake anyone. For me I do my best and Let God do the rest. Superheroes only exist in the comics, TV or movies.
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November 28, 2017 at 8:23 am
Very Deborah agreed, certain things are under control of the Lord
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November 28, 2017 at 4:23 pm
Yes. I just stay praying and do my best to keep a good attitude.
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November 28, 2017 at 8:32 am
A thin line between these words and very appropriately you explained the difference between the three making a huge difference in life process!! Great post sir
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November 28, 2017 at 8:37 am
Thanks Tanvir!
Yes we most times blindly go on and on, if only to understand certain words and Adopt them accordingly. It shall be of great help and contribute to our Happiness.
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November 28, 2017 at 8:42 am
Absolutely sir !! Adding value to life by adopting the words accordingly!! Thank you for sharing
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November 28, 2017 at 8:45 am
Beautifully explained the 3 A’s Shiva!
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November 28, 2017 at 8:48 am
Not Nor But
Make a helluva difference
Radhika! isn’t?
Thanks
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November 28, 2017 at 8:49 am
Absolutely Shiva. It changes the entire meaning!
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November 28, 2017 at 8:55 am
That’s nice😃
This is Radhika’s reflection.
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November 28, 2017 at 11:44 am
Yes very thin line but it is situational. If you like then it is easy to adopt but if it is not your liking (but unavoidable) but then the adoptions may come gradually.
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November 28, 2017 at 12:49 pm
This is an interesting way of viewing things, Shiva. I’m taking for granted you’re speaking of things worthy of being adopted. I’ve fought against some things. I can’t and won’t either adjust to or accept them and certainly not adopt them. 🙂 — Suzanne
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November 28, 2017 at 1:06 pm
Certainly Yes Suzanne Ma’am it is an interesting way. But as you have put it, if anything that is not worthy it is to be shunned.
This I should say, applies to situations that are bound to change our lives. So the adoption….😃
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November 28, 2017 at 5:27 pm
I think acceptance is the hard bit Shiva. Once you get there it is easier to adopt. 🌼
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November 28, 2017 at 5:32 pm
Brigid it all depends on how the mind is cultured.
Yes as you say it goes by the slow process. The Art you preach….💞🌷
Thanks
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November 28, 2017 at 7:28 pm
Positive and powerful! Adjust and accept is only good in the moment, Adopt is for the long haul, going towards fulfilling our potentials. You brought out the difference so well!
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November 29, 2017 at 3:30 am
Thanks, Adopt is for long haul, you said it right.
Potentials are rather waiting for our attitude and actions. Hitting them at the right time with the adoption tool.😃
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November 29, 2017 at 9:59 pm
Wow! You said it again so well and powerfully 🙂
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November 29, 2017 at 4:57 am
Shiva, thank you for sharing your thoughts on this post. I believe that there is only one option, which is acceptance, as hard as it might be, any other ways are leading us in bitterness and that’s the wrong turn to achieve the right attitude. Yet the key to get on this right path, is only awareness, listening to ourselves what is going on at the moment , therefore being honest with ourselves.
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November 29, 2017 at 2:01 pm
Cornelia you have shaken the still water and the ripples are forming. I understand what you really want to convey.
Acceptance and Awareness do not match. Acceptance is what we agree to what has come our way even in one corner of our mind we may not agree to it.
Awareness is what tells us to exercise our discretion.
Yes we are to be aware of our awareness. But that needs the mind to be nurtured. It takes its time and devotion to practice.
Here in the post I am slowly trying to bring the reader into Awareness.
When the petals start opening then shall one use their Discretion and Adopt.
I am sure and know that your Awareness has come of your Sincere Devotion and Discretion.
You are a Blessed one and your Karmic acts speak of your honest being and state.
Thanks so much.
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December 1, 2017 at 3:18 am
Dear Shiva, I love your first line of shaking the still water……I absolutely agree with what you are saying about acceptance and awareness, indeed it takes time and perseverance, yet it is all worth it, because through this learning process I have become a much more humbled person and there fore a happier being therefore it affects others. It’s all a beautiful circle to live within. Thank you for your last line, indeed I feel blessed. Thank you our fruitful conversations.
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November 29, 2017 at 11:20 am
Shiva, in your very clever and deep poem, post , you address deep questions to which our response will affect our lives.
I feel that each decision is right in different situations. Adopt if we can , accept or adjust as need forces. I have learnt though that there are also times when you just have to walk away.
Thank you for this deeply thoughtful post
miriam
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November 29, 2017 at 12:02 pm
Miriam I really appreciate your devotion to read my writings with full involvement. Thanks for that.
I understand your thoughtful act on different situations. Yes you do have to walk away at times. That is why I have mentioned it as Adjust for Good, Accept for Better and Adopt for Best. Only thing is we may be doing the Good instead of the Best, that is what it all means.
I hope the Best for you always Miriam.💞🌷
Shiva
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November 29, 2017 at 4:21 pm
Miriam you have seen my About today but there is another one, go read it. “ABOUT:”
Here is the link, I am sure you will enjoy.
https://theshivasponder.wordpress.com/2015/04/18/about/
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November 30, 2017 at 1:31 pm
Very insightful. I had to read twice to absorb it all. Thanks Shiva for enlightening us with this post. Think I will make this a Mantra “ADJUST ACCEPT ADOPT” 🙂
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December 1, 2017 at 3:24 am
Thanks Etta, I hope you have also read the comments section. As that would help to absorb much , since readers like you have contributed their opinions.
Etta it is so nice to make this a Mantra for the Good, Better and Best.
I wish YOU always the Best come and shower on YOU.
😃💞🌷
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December 1, 2017 at 10:45 am
Thanks Shiva, same to you my friend. Wishing you always the best and showers of blessings to you. Yes I do read the comments as they are just as insightful as your blogs. 🙂
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December 1, 2017 at 11:18 am
Thanks Etta, I felt so good that you also read the comments.
Blessings
💞🌷
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December 1, 2017 at 10:35 am
Thanks for helping us know these words better.
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December 3, 2017 at 12:10 pm
Oooh My friend Ngobesing Romanus, you are into words day in and out, a comment like this coming from you increase the depth of the words.
Thanks
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December 3, 2017 at 2:57 pm
Nice Shiva. Means your words are nice and you are nice.
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December 1, 2017 at 10:37 am
Very good choices, Shiva! Smiles, Robin 🌈
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December 1, 2017 at 11:16 am
Thanks Robin.
🌷🎶💞
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December 8, 2017 at 10:44 am
I particularly like how you explained the meaning of “adopt.” We could all use the move towards becoming more immersed into each other’s mindset. 💞🌐
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December 8, 2017 at 11:05 am
That’s exactly the need of the Hour. If Achieved Robin nothing like that.💞
Hugs
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December 8, 2017 at 5:18 pm
Yes, need of the hour indeed! hugs, Robin
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December 2, 2017 at 7:51 am
great post Shiva. I am re blogging this one.
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December 2, 2017 at 11:30 am
Thanks Rekha, I only hope it reaches many a readers.
🌷🎶
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December 2, 2017 at 7:51 am
Reblogged this on rekhasahay.
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December 2, 2017 at 10:09 am
Absolutely true and perfect words of perfection and wisdom Shiva. All three r perfect in themselves but acceptance of any situation is the best and to be aware of what is happening. Great post.
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December 2, 2017 at 11:36 am
Kamal so much thanks.
They are, but what I mean here is if you can Accept why should one Adjust and if you can Adopt why one should Accept. Choosing of the higher value.
That is why Good Better Best.
Thanks
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December 2, 2017 at 11:37 am
Yes of course true Shiva what u r saying but being aware of all the three leads u to the ultimate
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December 2, 2017 at 11:38 am
Definitely Yes Kamal.
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December 2, 2017 at 11:39 am
Thanks Shiva
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December 3, 2017 at 7:37 pm
Reblogged this on Ancien Hippie.
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December 4, 2017 at 5:33 pm
Please read https://bleedingthoughtsweb.com/2017/12/04/na-jaane-kyu/
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December 6, 2017 at 7:22 pm
Appropriately described the difference between the three,very nice post sir😊
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December 7, 2017 at 1:28 pm
Thanks Priti 😃
💞🌷
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December 8, 2017 at 11:59 pm
The subtle differences between these three basic things of life have been nicely explained. Great post… 🙂
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December 13, 2017 at 6:10 pm
Thank you for great blog
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December 13, 2017 at 6:13 pm
You are very much welcome Penney. I am so glad you commented on my post and have reblogged many of my posts.
Thanks once again.
Shiva
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December 17, 2017 at 4:58 pm
Brilliant
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December 17, 2017 at 5:00 pm
THANKS
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December 26, 2017 at 9:26 am
A beautiful an insightful post. Thank you for sharing Shiver.
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December 26, 2017 at 5:00 pm
Thanks Lady I am happy you read it. I hope it shall be of help to you. One most times require a break or some kind of a turning point it may be through words also.
Wishing YOU all the very Best in Life.🌟💞
Shiva
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