Control of Life
Control of Life
“Do not let lose the control of your Life
Slowly it shall be controlled by Something else and/or Someone else”
Over a period of time, in life at a certain point of time, we may start losing the control of our lives. In the process it may so happen that slowly somebody or something will crop up and conquer us and start controlling our life. So, Check. Beware. Take Decision Now. Before it is too late.
Following maybe
Something:
Health (Bodily or/and Mentally), Unwanted Love, Strained relationship
Chronic Disease, Money, Job, Legal Case …
Someone:
Self, Friend, Son, Daughter, Sister, Brother, Husband, Wife, Father, Mother, Relation, Colleague, Boss, Sub-Ordinate, or even a Stranger…
We are living on this earth in the frame of time, so all problems have solutions, all questions have answers, everything is short lived.
So, Shun it, Forget it, Do not care, Accept, Adopt and lastly Laugh at it…
Close eyes and sit for a while just think you are not what is happening. You are the Bliss___Understand.
90% or more, the Wife controls Husband and much lesser percent, in single digit, maybe, Husband controls Wife . Hehehe…
Here both enjoy each-others’ control… Hahaha…
theshivasponder 
April 24, 2017 at 4:59 am
The last fact was amazing. 😂
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April 24, 2017 at 7:18 pm
Miss! Nice to have your comment. As my observation and study goes it is a fact.
For confirmation and endorsement of this Amazing Control😂 you can refer Osho’s book “The Book of Woman” .
You shall find more amazing facts. There is also a book “The Book of Man”by him.
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April 24, 2017 at 7:21 pm
I have read many quotes by Osho. And they are all wonderful. I will look for the book now. Thank you for the suggestion.
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April 24, 2017 at 5:24 am
Great words of inspiration, Shiva and the last part was awesome, see so much power women have towards men that they take away all their happiness and make them uncontrol their lives. You said it so rightly, one has to not give in but see what is happening or it will ruin them. That is the power of the Ego. A lovely post.
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April 24, 2017 at 7:10 pm
😀 Kamal! I am happy you liked it. The controlling and making uncontrol is the funniest and most popular one 😂. The Ego has the capacity to……I think we shall discuss about it some other time. Thanks
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April 25, 2017 at 4:58 am
Welcome Shiva and yes Ego is the main controller and for sure will discuss at a later time. Have a great day.
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April 24, 2017 at 6:36 am
In the final analysis God is in control. An old saying, Man proposes. God disposes. Yes all problems have answers but to quote a Bible Scripture. Sometimes the answers/solutions are not found on this earth but in the next world whatever you may believe that world will be.
1 Corinthians 13:12
King James Version (KJV)
12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
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April 24, 2017 at 7:03 pm
😃 My Dear Ma’am! Without the grace of God we cannot move an inch. But at the same time He has given us the Free Will to act in this Free World. Most times that is freely misused and taken undue advantage. That is why such a lot of chaos in this World, you see.
Thanks for contributing your valued comment.🙏
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April 24, 2017 at 8:21 pm
Thanks. I really enjoy your thoughtful posts. Spiritual food for thought.
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April 24, 2017 at 9:55 am
Interesting, Shiva. That can happen. —- Suzanne
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April 24, 2017 at 6:43 pm
Suzanne Ma’am most suffer after the happening.
Thanks for recognising it.😃
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April 24, 2017 at 10:45 am
Shiva my friend,
great post.
As told by Paolo Coelho “that at a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what’s happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate.”
I believe also,this is not true
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April 24, 2017 at 6:53 pm
My Dear Ben! Thanks
So, Coelho maybe, interprets at a wrong point of time saying it as fate.
Without opening another chapter of fate, I too do not believe it as the free will shall lose its creteria.
All your posts that preach of self development and self confidence shall go in vain. Isn’t? 😃
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April 24, 2017 at 11:40 am
Good post. I agree it is important to drive our life
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April 24, 2017 at 6:41 pm
Thank you Gyslaine for agreeing. We cannot afford to give the driving to someone else. The driving wavelengths differ.😃
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April 24, 2017 at 11:59 pm
As a Buddhist, I think that we are not always in control, yes we like to be, but often this seems to me an illusion, that we are.
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April 25, 2017 at 9:49 am
This Life itself is an Illusion. The ‘Vedanta’ too tells that.In the Illusion is the this Controlling factor…
In a way you are right, we are not always in control and cannot be…
Most times we forget that we are in control of that Some….
Amazing….
Cornelia Thumbs Up…
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April 25, 2017 at 9:36 am
Beautiful post Siva. Loved the last bit of the post!!😅
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April 25, 2017 at 9:41 am
OMG! Everyone is liking the Last One Hehehe!!!!
Thanks Sumith
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April 25, 2017 at 11:44 am
😅😂
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April 26, 2017 at 6:22 am
Wonderful! Thank you!
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April 27, 2017 at 6:05 am
Reading the quote and your explanation made me really see the truth in there..it is indeed everyone’s delima (if not all) ….sometimes we loss control of our lives..we allow other people or circumstances and event take part in our lives…
then the last part…you made me laugh so hard Shiva. ..lol
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April 27, 2017 at 6:45 am
Mich! exactly that is what I meant to say.
Hahaha.. now it is You who made me laugh hard so much that people around me turned to see me as I am sitting in a reception…..😀🙏😂
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April 27, 2017 at 7:05 am
hahaha. ..its good to have a really great laugh amidst all the chaos of our work. .
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April 27, 2017 at 7:28 am
😃😂😆
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April 29, 2017 at 8:32 pm
I think we can often have a tendency to let people get to us. But, ultimately we can’t let others control us unless we let them. We give away our own power once we allow people to hurt us. Eventually, we have to let it go and not take it personally.
Whenever people lash out at us, it’s their baggage that they are dealing with and it’s up to us to not pick up their baggage and carry it with us. We can give their baggage back to them and let them carry it around. We don’t need to accept their negativity. It’s easier said than done, because after all we are only human.
But, with practice I believe anything is possible and can be conquered even learning to deal with challenging personalities.
Great and positive post. ❤
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May 3, 2017 at 6:36 am
Sonyo I do not know how I missed reading this beautiful comment.
You are right in every respect. A self-analysis and a thorough retrospection of oneself is the need.😄
All the Best to YOU.
Fond Regards
Shiva🎶
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April 30, 2017 at 5:14 am
Reblogged this on Brainy Versatility and commented:
SALUTE
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May 1, 2017 at 6:10 am
Thanks for this reblog. I went over to see it through the link you have given above, it appears there. But I could not see it in your home page, have you put it in some other menu. I wanted to comment over that on your blog. Please check and inform me..
You blog seems to catch the Versatility path…😃
All the Best to YOU my friend…
By the way I couldn’t get your name..
Fond Regards
Shiva
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May 1, 2017 at 11:46 am
It should be on my page. Yesterday was reblog day so it’s probably further Down the timeline since I reblog it early. People call me Brainy. Nice to meet you again Mr. Shiva Malekopmath.
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May 1, 2017 at 12:52 pm
I will check it. But I had scrolled it till 25thApril. I might have gone further by oversight.
Thanks once again Brainy
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May 1, 2017 at 12:54 pm
I’ll check again or I’ll reblog it again if I don’t see. Thanks for bringing that to my attention Sir
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May 1, 2017 at 4:15 pm
So true! So well concluded. 😄
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May 2, 2017 at 4:15 am
Very thoughtful post Shiva.
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May 2, 2017 at 4:56 am
Thanks Miriam!
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May 2, 2017 at 8:23 am
I lost control to my job, which in turn impacted on my health.. I took it back and how much better I feel as a result.. Thanks for a great reminder of how important it is to control our own destiny xx
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May 2, 2017 at 12:16 pm
In the present context and sequence the same thing is happening here with my
own daughter Wendy.
I have seen in my life of so many people being victimized by the someone and somethings which I have discussed above.
Life is much greater than what undue importance we give to….
Every relation has a horizon. Mixing of things creates hell. Control to be seen and performed in broad sense.
Thanks for contributing your experience and thoughts here.
Regards
Shiva
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May 2, 2017 at 4:44 pm
It’s important to stay grounded. Life happens too quickly. Don’t let it slip through your fingers.
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May 2, 2017 at 5:37 pm
Well said Ipuna, life flies without informing… by the time we know it has covered many a miles…
Thanks for this esteemed contribution.😃
Shiva
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May 2, 2017 at 11:04 pm
So true, Shiva.
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May 2, 2017 at 5:46 pm
This is so well written! I couldn’t have put it in better words!
Thank you for an Amazing read 😁
And I got to say this, my life’s a mess right now (to say the least) Lol. I really needed this. So thank you. 😊
Ps, love the humour at the end 😂
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May 2, 2017 at 6:00 pm
Oooh Batwoman! I liked the way you put it. Rather I am delighted…
Only because of your admittance I can assure you things will streamline for You. You need not think over much… it is getting to be common…
Take a matured decision.😄
The humor is getting popular… hahaha😂
Shiva
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May 6, 2017 at 8:06 am
Thanks for your kind words Shiva ☺️
I do hope things fall into place 😌
Ps, good humour always gets popular 😁
Tc, Keep writing. 😃
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May 5, 2017 at 11:44 am
So, Shun it, Forget it, Do not care, Accept, Adopt and lastly Laugh at it…
Absolutely agree with you 100%… I think it’s a great marriage ever wide had the liberty to control the husband and he happily let’s her do so while still being the man of the house…😜
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May 6, 2017 at 1:50 pm
Such great advice Shiva. The one I like best is to laugh at it!! I had let my job take control and rule my day! No longer, I have taken myself back and now even though I still have to go to work I am approaching it with a new outlook. I am not letting it consume me and I am not letting dictate my feelings. It’s not always easy and I still have that occasional day when I feel overwhelmed, but I am controlling my thoughts and pointing them in the direction I want!! Only 90%?? We women will have to work on that…hehe
Deb
xo
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May 6, 2017 at 5:47 pm
Ahhh! DEB! Great to get to know about your job fists loosening and you let it, “No longer”… take you for granted…. that’s news and I am so happy Dear.
So, you liked to laugh at it…. hahaha.
Oooh you Women folk still not satisfied having achieved 90% on that… God help the Man…. hehehe.
There is a book on “The Book of Woman” by Osho. In it he says 99% Men are Hen-pecked. Are you Women satisfied…😂
Hugs
Shiva🎶
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May 6, 2017 at 11:38 pm
Yes isn’t it good news about my job, yes i laugh at it now when it tries to wear me down.
Awe hen-pecked…nah now that I’m older and wiser, no more hen-pecking for me!! I’m a perfectionist so I’ll accept nothing less than 100% hehe
Deb
(just kidding) 🙂
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May 8, 2017 at 6:25 am
Wow Deb! Its definitely good news. So the turning point comes somewhere and sometime, and for you it has come. I am so very, very happy about it. So you are older and wiser see it never turns back here too.
Not to have the confusion that am I in the 1% or in the 99% I now sanction 100% for you all Women. Hehehe
This is my Kidding!😂
Shiva🎶
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May 7, 2017 at 5:52 am
We can’t control everything in our life, but we can try to make the best out of what is happening. A good laugh often helps. 🙂
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May 7, 2017 at 8:08 am
Thank you for this article.
Very inspired
Bye
Gabriele
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May 7, 2017 at 8:10 am
Why Bye so soon my Dear.
We are yet to go so far…..😀
Fond Regards
Shiva
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May 7, 2017 at 8:11 am
Gabriele! I shall come to you in a few hours from now…
Shiva🎶
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May 7, 2017 at 8:24 am
Ok.
It will be a pleasure!
Gabriele
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May 10, 2017 at 8:13 pm
I need help because I tend to let others overwhelm me with their suggestions. In the end they try to condition me. This is no good…
I feel fragile.
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May 10, 2017 at 9:23 pm
Yes this is no good…
I tend to let others overwhelm ….
So everything is coming from you and so everything cannot happen also….
Immediately stop, be serious do not respond…. it is the first step…. they shall know you do not require them…. why should you anyway….. do not mingle freely….. no much talk at all.
Slowly you will become strong.
Remove that feeling of fragile completely, even the roots are not to be seen, eradicate. I hope you understand My Dear!
That should be enough to control your Life.
Let me know the first results. It should not take time, maybe a week is enough. Hahaha
Shiva🎶
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May 12, 2017 at 6:41 pm
I hope so. Thank you!
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May 11, 2017 at 3:15 am
True i have seen leople become controlled and not know it, because it happens slowly over time. I think we have to daily challenge ourself and look at our life and ask daily did i do good today? Did i use my own decision making or did i go against my own grain because it was easy?
Great post and a lit of food for thought
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May 11, 2017 at 9:19 am
You have caught the point right,I appreciate that.
Yes on a daily basis what you said shall help and it pays.
You seem to be a good Analyst. My Pats Dear!
Shiva🎶
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May 17, 2017 at 6:16 am
Maybe it is in our quest to control others that we loose control of our own……….and I think husbands control percentage would be in decimal……. 😛
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May 17, 2017 at 10:42 am
Baba you are right absolutely. Apart from the quest it is the ill pride that wants to control others and I the process one loses control of his own .👍
Hahaha, if you have read the other comments and my responses to them we both can have another big laugh. 😂True it is in decimal. To one of my friends I have sanctioned 100%. 😃😂😋😇🤔
Shiva 🎶
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