RELATIONS SPOIL

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RELATIONS SPOIL

Communicate with

Mouth, Eye, Ear, Hand Properly

Or Relations Spoil

This is a Haiku Poem, a Japanese form of writing Poetry

I would like to give more information to new readers who would want to know about Haiku writing, in my previous Haiku I had given the basic information.

 Communication in this world today or since ancient times is a very important tool for people to live; live in harmony.

These days in our regular course of life we tend to ill communicate or sometimes not communicate at all.

Today there are various means to communicate but still we do the mistake of not communicating properly.

With me the experience goes on a daily basis with my own employees, my own beloved, my daughter so on and so forth.

This leads to the unnecessary straining of relationship and tension, which would lead to unwanted disorders and diseases.

Therefore the above words came in my mind, which knowingly become a Haiku and unknowingly a Quote.

 So, therefore I put this post under my ‘Poetry’ and also on ‘My Quotes’ Menus.

 Below is the link you can refer to for writing of Haiku  

http://www.creative-writing-now.com/how-to-write-a-haiku.html

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Characteristics of haiku

The following are typical of haiku:
A focus on nature.

A “season word” such as “snow” which tells the reader what time of year it is.

A division somewhere in the poem, which focuses first on one thing, than on another. The relationship between these two parts is sometimes surprising.

Instead of saying how a scene makes him or her feel, the poet shows the details that caused that emotion. If the sight of an empty winter sky made the poet feel lonely, describing that sky can give the same feeling to the reader.

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I also insert here some Images of even animals as to how they communicate and be communicated.

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43 thoughts on “RELATIONS SPOIL

    zerocreativity0 said:
    May 23, 2016 at 10:02 am

    loved it!

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    patriciaruthsusan said:
    May 23, 2016 at 12:12 pm

    Lovely thought, Shiva. I especially liked the picture of the puppy hugging the kitten. 🙂 — Suzanne

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 23, 2016 at 6:33 pm

      That puppy is a Beagle Dog I .love to have it one day.
      Presently I have four street dogs that have come as a rescue.
      God knows how many days they shall be with me. Of course they are very good friendly dogs.
      They do communicate properly.

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    Erika Kind said:
    May 23, 2016 at 12:55 pm

    Interesting post about communication, Shiva! The photos at the end are gorgeous!

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 23, 2016 at 1:03 pm

      Thanks Erika!
      It’s long since I have to your Blog, only today I saw one post.
      I shall visit again shortly.
      Thanks
      Shiva

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        Erika Kind said:
        May 23, 2016 at 1:57 pm

        Don’t worry, Shiva! I understand that time issue too well! Whenever you show up I appreciate it 😊

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    shekhar said:
    May 23, 2016 at 1:16 pm

    nice

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    Christy Birmingham said:
    May 23, 2016 at 10:04 pm

    The pictures of animals communicating are adorable! I like that haiku is short, to the point, and says so much!

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 24, 2016 at 3:41 pm

      Christy!
      You are so right in communicating the comment.
      Yes I loved those pics of the animals, thought it would be right to insert them.
      You communicatively communicate.
      I think you are not following me, I checked the other day.
      These days I do not know why, sometimes it asks for some bloggers to follow although I have been following them for months it has happened with three of my following friends. Please check from your side.
      By the way it is left to You about that.
      Regards,
      Shiva

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        Christy Birmingham said:
        May 25, 2016 at 4:12 pm

        Thanks for telling me that and I’m now following you! I thought I already was. Now I’m all set 🙂

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          Shiva Malekopmath responded:
          May 25, 2016 at 6:33 pm

          Christy!.
          I thought it as much , there is nothing very particular, since you have been regularly visiting me and appreciating my posts I told you.
          I have so many who follow but if they don’t visit what would be the benefit from both the ends.
          In the limited time I get I try and visit so many of my following friends, I mean my first preference to them.
          I have visited your blog and have found your posts profound. I shall be visiting you soon.
          Thanks
          Shiva

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    Deb said:
    May 23, 2016 at 11:09 pm

    I think we could take a lesson from the animals, they communicate so much better than we do! Communication tends to be different within our social circles, I communicate differently with different people, co-workers, friends, family, loved ones, social friends, the level of communication or the depth of communication varies. You are right communicate properly or relations spoil…well said! Your pictures are so apropos.
    Deb!
    🙂

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 24, 2016 at 2:22 pm

      Yes! Animals do it properly. That is why I inserted those cute real pics of them. It is natural that we communicate differently with different people and it varies, only thing is to should be felt proper from both the ends. By the way in the big list how do you place me.
      Have a nice day!
      Shiva
      xo

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        Deb said:
        May 25, 2016 at 1:06 am

        You are my social friend who has lots of knowledge to teach and offer and who is also funny too. 🙂
        Deb

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          Shiva Malekopmath responded:
          May 25, 2016 at 11:35 am

          You use your Brain properly while replying to a comment.
          Your Brain is Commendable!
          Pats to Your Brain!
          🙂
          Ha Ha Ha
          Shiva

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            Deb said:
            May 25, 2016 at 10:03 pm

            Lol!! Thanks, I’m patting my Brain.
            My Brain says thank you too!!
            Hee hee…
            Deb
            🙂

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    Amunala said:
    May 25, 2016 at 5:07 am

    Greetings Shiva…I think am grateful I learned something new from you.Cheers!!!

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 25, 2016 at 11:38 am

      I think myself Great now by your grateful comment Amunala!
      If you have learnt, take the best use of it.
      Greetings to you too.
      Shiva

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    sharmishtha basu said:
    May 25, 2016 at 7:22 am

    very true words, these days we mostly mis-communicate not communicate with each other, even our near and dear ones. we are always running or one of us is!

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 25, 2016 at 11:53 am

      Yes very true isn’t!
      Inspite of the hundreds of means of communication, we tend to spoil our relation.
      Look to those sweet animals, birds and other creatures even ants Ya!
      Don’t you think so.
      Sharmishtha!
      By your name I get to remember my sister, her name is Sharmila.
      Sayonara for now.
      Shiva

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    levishedated (Robert C Day) said:
    May 25, 2016 at 7:45 am

    You’re a sweet guy. Your beloved and daughter are fortunate to have such a sensitive and intelligent guy like you in their lives. 🙂
    Kind regards,
    Robert (from York in England).

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 26, 2016 at 7:56 am

      Thanks Robert for sensing me as sensible. Hope in everybody’s life they sense it so and make them fortunate enough.
      This comment has inspired me to write something on Sense, I shall inform you as soon as I post it. If you want you can follow me so that you shall get the message to your mail.
      I visited your blog this morning but in a hurry, I shall visit you again and comment on your posts.I followed you also.
      You are equally so sweet to call me sweet because only sweet people can taste sweet properly.
      Thanks
      Shiva

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        levishedated (Robert C Day) said:
        May 26, 2016 at 10:05 am

        Good Morning (or Good Afternoon) Shivaji. I hope you are having a great day and that the sweetness in strong within you.
        Thanks for your advice about following – I appreciate that, and also – thanks for visiting with me – you are welcome at any time. I hope you find it as easy and pleasant as visiting your auntie’s home.
        Have a good one.
        Kind regards – Robert.

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    syd7t5 said:
    May 25, 2016 at 10:34 am

    Hi. I’ve nominated you for the Liebster Award 2016. Check out my latest post as I could my tag you properly. 😀

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    bethbyrnes said:
    May 27, 2016 at 11:55 pm

    Wonderful history and summary of communication, Shiva. The pictures really enhance your ideas. Such fun and good information!

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 28, 2016 at 3:52 am

      Beth!
      Thanks so much!
      The first time I read a Haiku, it was surprising and strange for me.
      I thought let me try one; it happened the other day, this is my second one.
      I feel You read “Sayonara” the previous one and listen to one Bollywood song called Sayonara in the comment page.
      I am happy to tell you this morning I wrote another Haiku.
      Thanks for the visit.
      I shall come to you shortly.
      Shiva

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    Soul Gifts said:
    May 28, 2016 at 11:33 am

    I have indeed crossed many oceans to be here, and come to visit via Jacquie’s party to read your thought post and words of wisdom. I particularly like the photos – the animal ones especially 🙂

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 28, 2016 at 11:52 am

      I am getting ready to come there, thanks for building the relations.
      Aftewr all You are Soulgifts.
      Shiva

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        Soul Gifts said:
        May 28, 2016 at 12:10 pm

        Awww, that’s so sweet, thank you 🙂 I expect to see you in your best party wear !

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    Stephanae V. McCoy said:
    May 29, 2016 at 2:54 pm

    Great post Shiva!! Even though as you say we have many ways of communicating it seems today that quite a bit of it is one sided as we are bombarded with so much information. This is good food for thought and I love the pictures especially the animals. Have a great day! Steph

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      May 29, 2016 at 5:43 pm

      Thanks Stephanae!
      Yes you are right, this bombardment shall be there. Best thing is we should close our receiving end senses.
      It just came as a thought after writing it as to why I should not include some pics of the animals. Here you go they receive only those signals that they want, isn’t?
      That is why they behave so beautifully.
      Let all good things come to you, shall meet again.
      Shiva

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    swamiyesudas said:
    May 30, 2016 at 12:16 pm

    Reblogged this on lovehappinessandpeace and commented:
    On the one hand, Relationships with other Human beings are formed Slowly and over time.

    But due to, as Shiva says, ‘Bad’ communications, too many Relationships Sadly Spoil indeed.

    The picture Shiva has presented of two people practically shouting at each other is extremely powerful, and very true.

    Even if We do not ‘shout’ like that, too often We are speaking, in a mood to speak, or forming ‘What We are going to say’ rather than listening!

    Shiva’s further presentation of the Communication between Animals, or the Woman with the Deer (?), Wordless, but TOTAL communications, really speak Volumes on this subject.

    Kudos, my Dear Shiva! May Spoilt Relationships be Built back, and May We All Grow in Healthy and Loving Relationships!

    *******

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      Shiva Malekopmath responded:
      June 1, 2016 at 4:26 am

      Thanks for the Re-blog and putting your most valued comments here.
      I only hope bloggers and others who come here should read it and also come to your blog post.
      They shall understand it better.
      Fond Regards,
      Shiva

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        swamiyesudas said:
        June 2, 2016 at 10:57 am

        The idea of visits to blogs is reciprocated, my Dear Shiva! Hearty Regards to You, too! 🙂

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    moonskittles said:
    June 3, 2016 at 5:31 am

    There are many ways that we can communicate and you have exploited all of them. I really enjoyed this post. May we all not shy away from being open, and strive to be better communicate.
    Please enjoy your day.
    Dajena 🙂

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    Nena said:
    June 3, 2016 at 4:36 pm

    Oh I love this haiku on communication! It is the essence of life and relationships:) I am so happy to see the animal pics, too. Just watching them interact can teach us something.

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    Hemangini said:
    June 15, 2016 at 2:48 am

    I love haikus and this one is beautiful.. it conveys something that we all miss, communication, real one.
    People chat these days but never actually talk.. It’s funny that so less is remembered of the conversation.. We are SO BUSY. I wrote a post about it once, “I don’t want meaningless conversations please.” It’s so difficult to have conversation with someone who isn’t willing at all, and most people today are not.

    I love the animal pictures.. I used to talk to my grandpa’s cows and calves like that, its so much fun. they are just too cute.
    Keep writing such beautiful posts 🙂

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You have come all the way , May be crossing Seven Oceans , Mountains and Forests, would you not want to say something instead of going Bare Handed.........