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ANGER! It is said to be one of the negative behavioural pattern of humans. But every human tends to be angry, knowing that, it is though not called for. All spiritual scriptures in this world do not recommend anger as a virtue. But most times we have and are compelled to get angry. The inner being or conscious whispers to stop the act, but man continues to be in the act. There are situations that we have to be angry, may be, to make know the people at the other end as to what is expected of.
In the process of being angry we invite fights in which most of the times both the parties at each ends are put to loss. The harmony is disturbed. The moods get changed. The relationship is strained.
The most common fights due to Anger are among Husband & Wife, Father & Son, Business and Professional Partners, Man & Man, Woman & Woman, Man & Woman and vice versa.
In the whole process of getting Angry, we (please be aware that includes me) get to be Nonsensical, and that creates the whole problem. While we are Angry, we start talking nonsense, stupid, unconcerned, not related to the subject or something which was of the past or of the future which may occur or not, or that which makes the whole thing an End. Can that be a pure fight on which it is related; I feel it cannot, because we tend to be Nonsensical. The resultant could be a Divorce, Business Loss, Strained relationship among family members, friends and community at large. Just One Word uttered may cause a life time repentance and agony.
People at the helm of affairs; be it among the family, community, corporate circles, organisations and business heads are bound to be Angry, that which is necessary and permissible, in running it successfully. Even there being Nonsensical is not expected of.  They are shrewd, practical, diplomatic and intelligent; being Angry. So that makes one circle complete. People involved are also happy.
Animals also tend to be Angry and invite fights among their own circles. But I feel they don’t get Nonsensical; the next moment they become friends.
Getting Angry is necessary. Getting Nonsensical is not required.
Left to Me, You and Everyone to decide and act.
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    rajeevhemmady said:
    May 13, 2015 at 5:47 pm

    Worth pondering… 🙂
    I feel… Getting Angry is OPTIONAL. Getting Nonsensical is definitely not sensible.

    I like to read your blog. Keep penning.


    Uday said:
    May 13, 2015 at 6:37 pm

    Yes, when we get angry we do tend to do stuff that we will regret later. If we are a bit conscious at that stage, we can avoid a lot of repurcussions.


    Kunal said:
    May 14, 2015 at 4:37 am

    Thought provoking indeed!


    lucydanvers said:
    May 14, 2015 at 7:24 pm

    Very intellectual article, loved it!


    Shiva Malekopmath responded:
    May 15, 2015 at 2:29 am

    Dear Rajeev, Uday,Kunal,Lucy,
    Good Morning ! Have a Wondeful Day!
    Thanks All of You


    jacquelineobyikocha said:
    August 30, 2015 at 4:00 pm

    I think we get nonsensical to score cheap points and only worsen a bad situation. If only…

    Liked by 1 person

    athling2001 said:
    January 23, 2016 at 10:43 am

    Truth! Thank you for your insights.


You have come all the way , May be crossing Seven Oceans , Mountains and Forests, would you not want to say something instead of going Bare Handed.........

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